Margarita is a 69 years old Mexican woman who lives in Guadalajara, Jalisco. She was widower in 2005 of her only marriage; from which she grew up five daughters, all of them married by now. She has 9 grandchildren and two brothers older than her. Her family visited here frequently but not as much as she would like.
Margarita owns a well know restaurant in Guadalajara, which is run by the oldest of her daughters. However the performance of her business has not been as good as it used to be many years ago. Due the business situation she cannot afford the life style she would like to have; however it is enough to hold her big house where she lives and an apartment in the beach.
She feels alone, most of the time she stays at home by herself; “my daughters are very busy and they have not time for me” she thinks. She is afraid of being a burden for her family and also she is not comfortable with her current situation where she depends on others to go out and get her things done, every time she needs to go out she calls to a driver to take her but does not like to do this frequently. She feels that he is not capable of many things especially when it comes to the use of technology as cell phones and computers.
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
2.
What does
she see?
Every morning the newspaper is delivered to her door, she is interested
on different kind of news and articles related to her community as well as
sports; she also likes to check if there is any upcoming event or special sales. She dedicates long time of her day to watch
the TV, she likes to find movies during the day and follow the soap operas at
the evening.
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
3. What does
she say and do?
She says that there are many things she would like to do but she cannot
because of her movement impairment. Every other day she enjoys of going to the
aerobics classes for seniors. Also one of her hobbies is to knit clothes for
her grandchildren and also for her daughters. Sometimes she complains that her
family is very busy and they have not time to take her to do the things she
wants or need to do outside. She says that is not capable of doing anything
related to technology. When she feels optimistic she says that it is time for
her to take the control of her life back, face her fears and do the things she
wants by herself besides her impairment. She also says that she needs to accept
her reality and her loneliness. However she is not optimistic every day.
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
4.
What does
she hear?
She hear many different people every day, she likes to talk by phone with some of her friend, sometimes they invite her to go out, other times they talk about their problems with them or within their families. Some other days she receives calls from her brothers, which make her very happy (she loves to know about her two brothers). Almost every day she also receives the calls of most of her daughters at night to say hi and talk about how their day was.
She hear many different people every day, she likes to talk by phone with some of her friend, sometimes they invite her to go out, other times they talk about their problems with them or within their families. Some other days she receives calls from her brothers, which make her very happy (she loves to know about her two brothers). Almost every day she also receives the calls of most of her daughters at night to say hi and talk about how their day was.
However not everything what she hears is what she wants to hear. Many times she receives feedback, mostly from her daughters, when she is complaining about her situation and giving up. They always try to encourage her to put more effort and do things by herself; however she argues that they do not understand her
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
5. What are his or her pain points?
5. What are his or her pain points?
She yearns for her old days, when she used to have control of her life. She remembers when she was able to do the things she wanted without depending on someone. She is afraid of being a burn for her family in the future, and even worse to be more dependent of others around her. Basically she is afraid to lose the most valuable thing for her: control.
As most mothers she is very concern about the happiness of her family, specially her daughters and grandchildren. She is always worried about any problem that her daughters would be facing and tries to support them the best she can. Fortunately for her all her made a good life and happy, with minimal problems.
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
6.
What does
she hope to gain?
She is working hard to
rebuild her life and she is positive most of the time about the future. She
expects to improve her condition as much as possible. Eventually she would like
to get more control over her life and be able to do what she wants when she
wants.
Jorge – good job with your persona. Thanks for your effort. I’m glad Margarita is still hopeful about her condition, it sounds like she has a great spirit about her!
ReplyDelete